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title: >-
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Mr. Worldwide, Pt. 1: Europe
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Or: How I stopped worrying and learned to love tomatoes.
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## TODO
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## Outline
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- Denver
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- What I had
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- Why I left
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- Loadout
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- Road Trip
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- Ibrahim notebook
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- Choosing destinations
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- The First Leg
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- Munich
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- Silence
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- Relative
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- Italy
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- Milan
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- Ostello Bello, friends
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- Duomo
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- Walking/Getting around (Google maps)
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- Ravenna
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- Currency
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- Old monastaries, mosaics
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- Florence
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- Museums
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- Celia
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- Rome
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- Tourism's effect on a city
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- Too much to see in Italy, too little time
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- Spain
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- Barcelona
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- La Sagrada Familia, churches
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- Madrid
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- Royalty, revolution
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- Cordoba
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- Playing things close
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- Granada
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- Flamenco
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- Peace
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- Lisbon
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- Hostels
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- A city where people still live
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- Escher (Granada/Cordoba)
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- The Second Leg
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- Munich
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- No more pictures, no more tourism
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- Diet
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- Belgium
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- Brussels
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- Communism and french fries
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- Comic book museum
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- Drawing
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- Bruges
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- Beer
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- A fucking expensive fairytale
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- So cold, so scarfed
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- Camina Del Santiago
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- UK
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- London
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- Cost of museums, theft of culture
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- Dublin
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- Housing problems
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- Glendalough
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- Edinburgh
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- Reading/Writing
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- Harry Fucking Potter
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- Amsterdam
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- Pub crawl (partying vs ...)
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- Van Gogh
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- Weed
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- Sex (museum)
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- Copenhagen
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- Freedom (Christiania)
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- So many chairs
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- Stockholm
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- Tradition
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- Berlin
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- History
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- Movie
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- Prague
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- Wandering
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- Planning
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- The Third Leg
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- Munich
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- Alps, Olympics
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- Passport
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- Venice
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- Beauty in spite of tourism
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- Rijeka
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- Hitchikers
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- A strange beauty
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- Vienna
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- Riches and empire
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- A day at the palace
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- The Couchsurfing Cult
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- Athens
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- Culture
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- History
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# Munich, Germany
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I arrived in Munich late at night on January 14th. My friend Caitlin met me at
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the train station near her house and we walked over to it to drop my stuff off.
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Jetlag hit me real good at this point, so I only barely remember her taking me
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to a nearby biergarten to get some food and catch up. The next day we headed
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down to the center of the city, and she showed me around the sights, like
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Marienplatz and the Frauenkirche (one of many famous churches in Munich).
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{% include image.html
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src="mr-worldwide/munich-victory-gate-2018.jpg"
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descr="Siegestor (Victory Gate), Munich, 2018"
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%}
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As we walked and ate our way through the day Caitlin told me all of the things
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that are different in Europe, like how water is never free anywhere, nor are
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public restrooms; like how many buildings which are still used and lived in are
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older than our entire country; like how people use cash instead of card, and get
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irritated if you make them break a large bill, or they just might not do it at
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all; like how even in a large city like Munich everything can still be closed on
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a Sunday.
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{% include image.html
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src="mr-worldwide/munich-moosach-2018.jpg"
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float="right"
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%}
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The thing which struck me most about Munich was how quiet it was. The din of
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traffic is so ingrained into me that I don't even hear it until it's not there.
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And to not hear it inside of a city was very strange. More than sound, there was
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a quietness of life. It didn't feel like people were rushed, with too much to do
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and too little time. People crowded onto the subway, but not with impatience,
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and people walked home from the train station after work without hurry. It was
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like the priorities of the whole culture were different in some fundamental way
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that I could never quite put a finger on.
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Caitlin worked during the week and so I was set free into the City for a few
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days. I visited more churches, ate more food, hung out at the library figuring
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out the next steps of my travels, and just generally wandered around the city.
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One snowy day I had lunch with a distant relative on my mom's side, who is an
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artist in Munich. I met her at her studio, and from there we wandered around
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various museums where she gave me essentially a private guided tour of the
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exhibits. We talked about politics, with Trump being the main topic of course.
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We talked about art, and school, and our different cultures. She told me that
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Europe had always looked to the US as a kind of older brother, but now that
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image was starting to fall apart, and I told her about the tiny house and
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minimalism movement that is hopefully picking up steam in the US. (TODO finish
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this paragraph).
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A week after arriving it was time for me to continue on. One cold morning I
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hopped onto a bus, rode through a snowy Switzerland, and hopped off into a
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bright and sunny Milan.
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## Milan, Italy
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My first impression of Milan was: "Wow, this place is sketchy". The streets were
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dirty, old, and covered in graffiti. There were homeless everywhere, people
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selling bootleg clothes in the street, scammers targeting tourists, and a
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general disheveldness which Munich didn't have. But on the other side of that
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coin, Milan is one of the fashion capitals of the world, and everywhere I looked
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there were also beautiful people in expensive looking clothes, driving fancy
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cars, and eating at fancy cafes. Where Munich was simple and wealthy, Milan was
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lavish and disparate.
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My hostel in Milan was called the Ostello Bello, and was probably the best one I
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could have gotten as my first hostel in Europe. The hostel's downstairs area was
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a restaurant/bar, with tables reserved for hostel guests. Upon arriving they
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immediately sat me down at one of those tables, where others were sitting, and
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said "this is Brian, talk to him". They did this with every person who arrived,
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as well as giving us free food and drinks, so that every night turned into a
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small party.
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It took a while for me to fully break out of my shell and get used to meeting
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people in hostels, but if it weren't for Ostello Bello it might not have
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happened at all. Every night I got to hand out and make friends with people from
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South Korea, Scotland, Argentina, France, Switzerland, and locals from Milan
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too. So despite all the negative things I'm going to have to say about party
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hostels later, I'm grateful for Ostello Bello.
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As far as Milan itself, the only thing which really impacted me was the Duomo.
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And boy did it impact me, so much so that I visited it twice. It's the third
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largest church in the world, but my experience of it was even better than when I
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went to St. Peter's, the first largest. The interior is so cavernous that all
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sounds echo virtually forever, creating a low hum which reminded me of the Hindu
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Om. To think that the words of a book carried such force that, 2000 years later,
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people were erecting and maintaining incredible structures like the Milan's
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Duomo in their honor floored me. There's a lot of criticism which could and
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should be leveled towards the Catholic Church, but damnit they know how to build
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a building.
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Besides the Duomo I also visited some museums and other sights, like the Sforza
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Castle, walking from one to the other as the days went on. Walking became a
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frequent past-time for me during my traveling. Between Google Maps and an
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external batter pack I always had with me there was never a worry about getting
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lost, and with hostels generally being clustered near the sights it was rarely
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more than a half-hour walk to any given thing I wanted to see. So I got used to
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walking a lot, and taking public transit infrequently, and never once used a
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taxi or rental car while in Europe.
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Five days after arriving in Milan I left it, having made many friends and
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having learned a lot about Italy and Italians. I also learned I was spending too
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long at each city: It was almost 2 weeks into my 3 month-max trip (for visa
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reasons), and I'd only been to two! From then on I kept to two or three days per
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city, depending on how much I cared about it, with a couple of five day-ers when
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I really needed a rest.
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## Ravenna, Italy
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After the hecticness of Milan I needed something more quiet. Before leaving the
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US a friend had told me about Ravenna, the once capital of the Western Roman
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Empire and now small Italian city, where some of the world's oldest Christian
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structures still reside. Mosaics retain their original quality over time far
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better than many other mediums, and Ravenna was full of ones from as early as
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the 6th century. While not as glamorous and fast-paced as Milan, Ravenna really
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hit me with the depth of its history. As someone from the US I'm not accustomed
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to seeing anything built before 1500, and yet here were buildings in excellent
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condition which were built a thousand years prior.
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Another thing which took some time to get accustomed to was using cash. By this
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point in the trip it had become somewhat second-nature, but only by way of many
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mishaps previously. In the US using cash is usually a backup option, with
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credit/debit cards ruling supreme. ATMs never give out bills bigger than $20,
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and no establishment would ever complain about having to break a $20 except for
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maybe the smallest purchases. In Europe the ATMs (or cash machines, whatever)
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almost always give out €50 bills, which absolutely no one wants to break except
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big chain stores. I still remember the exact location of an ATM in Munich which
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gave me €10 bills, it was that exciting of a find, and I went out of my way to
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go back to it more than once.
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So in addition to needing to keep an eye on your cash and get more out
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periodically, you also need to keep an eye out for places which will break your
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bills and plan accordingly. Before leaving the US I had gotten a debit card with
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free international ATM withdrawls at any ATM, so finding places to get cash out
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wasn't a problem, but breaking it always was.
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By the time I got back to the US, I missed doing everything in cash, and even
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kept doing it for a while in spite of my culture. While having to find places to
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break fifties was a pain, a little friction to making random purchases wasn't
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necessarily a bad thing. Instead of impulsively buying whatever was in front of
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me, I was incentivized to wait until a better opportunity arrose, generally by
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waiting until I could buy multiple things at the same time, which generally
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meant buying more efficiently because I was actually putting thought into it.
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Also, by always paying in cash, I had a better sense of how much I was actually
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spending day-to-day. In the US we abhor inconvenience, but in my opinion our
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reluctance to use cash is a good example of how that abhorance can be to our own
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detriment.
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## Florence, Italy
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The train from Ravenna to Florence (or, as Italians spell it, _Firenze_) was
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uneventful. Finding the best route between cities turned out to be pretty
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straightforward. There's an app called GoEuro which helps compare different
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methods like bus, train, plane, and taxi/ride-sharing. There's another app
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called Rome2Trio which does roughly the same thing. There's a bus company called
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FlexBus which I used quite a bit; their prices are good, their buses are new,
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and the UI of their site was made in the last decade.
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Florence was by far my favorite city in Italy. On the one hand it was very
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trourist-friendly, and on the other it still retained the feeling of being a
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historic city. I split my time there between visiting museums and churches and
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finding the best cheapest spots to eat. Before leaving the US a friend had told
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me to avoid any restaurant in Europe that has pictures on its menu; they're
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targeted at tourists and priced accordingly. My strategy for finding food
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involved marking off hole-in-the-wall spots in my maps app whenever I came
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across them during the day.
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On my second day in Florence I was sitting by the Uffizi, eating a panini, and I
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randomly met an art history student from Madrid who was also visiting Florence.
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Together we went to a bunch of museums, saw the David, and just generally hung
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out. I asked her a lot of questions at the museums, because, to be honest, I'd
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never understood what to make of art in museums.
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I'd already learned that, even if I could see a picture of something online,
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seeing it in person is way different. In person the colors in a painting pop out
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more (many even have gold leef paint which doesn't really show up in pictures at
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all, but makes a world of difference), there's a lot more detail to be seen, and
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the size of some is absolutely baffling. I also enjoy learning about history,
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and the history of art is effectively the history of the world. So museums had
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become a meditative place for me; I could go to one and just wander, taking in
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art pieces at whatever rate I liked, learning and thinking about history as I
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went.
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What had always confused me, though, was how to _judge_ art. As in, what makes
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one piece better than another, or what makes one artist better than another? Why
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do some paintings become famous and others remain obscure? What my friend from
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Madrid told me is that there's not really a metric. Some paintings become famous
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for historical reasons, either due to where they were originally displayed or
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some story associated with them. Same for some artists. Ultimately it's up to
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the individual to judge them. There was a painting in the same room as the
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famous Birth of Venus painting which I liked far more, and was happy to admire
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it alone as throngs of other tourists vied for good selfies with the more famous
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piece.
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I left Florence with a greater appreciation and understanding of museums, as
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well as a good friend who I would be able to visit later while making my way
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through Spain.
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## Rome, Italy
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Rome surprised me when I got there, though to be honest it's not clear what my
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expectations actually were. The city center, aka the tourist center, is
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absolutely _massive_, and all of it is completely tourist-centric. Living in
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Rome must feel like living inside of Disney World. The city no longer exists for
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its residents, but instead has been completely swallowed by the tourism
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industry. Every street corner and storefront is filled with souvenir shops,
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overpriced food, clothing stores with "I <3 Rome" shirts, gelato shops, walking
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tour agencies, bike rentals, "experience" vendors (helicopter rides over the
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Colosseum! Oh my!), shitty jewelry stores, and so much more, all aimed at
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someone who has too much money and not enough time to spend it all.
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My hostel was one of the cheapest I could find, but since I was only staying
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two full days I figured it'd be fine. Seeing all the sights of Rome in only two
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days is not recommended, but I did the best I could. The first day I went
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straight to the Vatican, getting there as early as possible to try
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(unsuccessfully) to beat the line. St. Peters is the largest church in the
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world, but being rushed I wasn't able to enjoy it like Milan's Duomo, and a lot
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of it was closed off unless you wanted to pay more. I wasn't able to spend
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enough time in it to enjoy it.
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The Vatican museum was more enjoyable than I thought it would be. For starters
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it's huge, with tons and tons of things to see, including, obviously, the
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Sistene Chapel. I took my time wandering around. After the museum I left the
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Vatican and wandered over to some other sights, like the Castel Sant'Angelo and
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the Pantheon. As the day wore on, and more and more tourists started pouring
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out, everything became impossibly crowded. It was difficult to really enjoy
|
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anything, what with everyone taking their phones out to capture anything and
|
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|
everything the guidebook said to, without really taking the time to take in the
|
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thing itself.
|
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|
|
||||||
|
This was something I began to struggle with while I was in Rome. It wasn't
|
||||||
|
always clear to me _why_ these people cared about these sights, with myself
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being included. My pessimistic self would say that people just want the social
|
||||||
|
media points gained by a nice selfie in front of Trevi Fountain, and that the
|
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tourism explosion which has started in the last decade is driven by narcissism.
|
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title: >-
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Mr. Worldwide, Pt. 0: Bailtrain to Bailtown
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description: >-
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Wherein I quit my job and prepare to leave the country
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---
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## Denver
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In mid-2015 I moved to Denver, CO while continuing to work remotely at the
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company I had helped to found back in Gainesville, FL. Florida had been my home
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for my entire life, up until that point, and it felt like a change was needed.
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Denver was certainly a change, and ultimately I think it was one in the right
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direction, but it turned out to not be enough.
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While in Denver I'd rented a tiny studio apartment, which over the
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course of two years I'd learned to live in. Living large is pretty easy; for
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some reason we (generally) find it more difficult to throw something away than
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to exert the effort to make space for it in our lives. It takes a non-trivial
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amount of trial-and-error to figure out a smaller lifestyle with fewer things.
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So minimalism is something I started to practice, and continue to practice, in
|
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the literal sense of the word, often failing at it. But I find the challenge to
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be worth it.
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I'd always separated my work-place from my living-place, mentally. Eventually I
|
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realized that just because the two places were physically separate doesn't mean
|
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they aren't a part of the same thing. At the most basic level I work in order to
|
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afford basic necessities, like food and clothing and shelter. I have a dedicated
|
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home because it's the most efficient way to keep myself fit and healthy and
|
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clean, because it allows me to having my own ammenities and routines which work
|
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|
best for me.
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But the more I work, the more I burn out and need to recuperate at home. The
|
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|
more time spent at home, the more things accumulate there and the more upkeep of
|
||||||
|
the home is needed, which in turn requires money which requires work. The one
|
||||||
|
leads to the other, and so they are really part of the same thing. I neither
|
||||||
|
want to work nor spend a lot of time at home, but that's what my life had turned
|
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|
into. It was unbearable, and I had to change it.
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## Mr. Worldwide
|
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|
In early 2016 I took a trip to Japan with some friends. It was the first time
|
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|
I'd been out of the US (sans a family trip to Nova Scotia when I was like 9 or
|
||||||
|
something). Going to Japan might as well have been a trip to an alien planet,
|
||||||
|
and yet it was also familiar. I learned that no matter how different our
|
||||||
|
cultures are, the individuals of the world aren't that different at all. By the
|
||||||
|
end of that trip I felt as at-home in Japan as I did in Denver, if not more so,
|
||||||
|
because of how much time I was able to spend exploring (rather than being couped
|
||||||
|
up working).
|
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src="mr-worldwide/kyoto-2017.jpg"
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descr="Kyoto at sunset, 2017" %}
|
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|
|
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|
By the end of 2016 I knew I wanted to travel and see as much as possible, while
|
||||||
|
working as little as possible in the meantime (except on my own ideas, as they
|
||||||
|
came up and I felt like working on them). I began trimming down my life, with
|
||||||
|
the aim of only having as many things as would fit into a backpack. It probably
|
||||||
|
seemed to everyone like I was preparing to become a homeless person. In a way I
|
||||||
|
kind of was.
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
My plan wasn't that I would never work again, or never live in a home again.
|
||||||
|
Vagrancy isn't a sustainable way for me to live. But finding a life which didn't
|
||||||
|
involve spending all my energy working while also not being homeless is surely
|
||||||
|
possible, I knew, though maybe I wouldn't find it in the US. I began saving as
|
||||||
|
much money as possible, and began thinking about where I might find that life.
|
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|
|
||||||
|
Europe seemed as good a place to start the search as any.
|
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|
|
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|
## Leaving Denver
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
By the end of 2017 I was ready to go. I had saved nearly $20k, had put in notice
|
||||||
|
that I'd be leaving my job at the end of the year, and had given notice to my
|
||||||
|
landlord of the same. My friends in Denver saw me off, and my friend Ibrahim
|
||||||
|
gave me a small notebook to take notes in as I traveled, with some helpful
|
||||||
|
phrases that might aid me along the way
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
{% include image.html
|
||||||
|
src="mr-worldwide/notebook.jpg"
|
||||||
|
descr="Ibrahim made sure I was covered if I ever found myself in a tight spot"
|
||||||
|
%}
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
I drove all my things back to my parents' house in Miami just before Christmas,
|
||||||
|
and enjoyed Christmas and New Year's with them. In mid-January I grabbed my
|
||||||
|
single backpack, said goodbye to my parents, and headed to the airport. It had
|
||||||
|
worked out to be cheaper to fly back to Denver before flying to Europe, so I
|
||||||
|
spent another day there saying hello/goodbye to everyone again, collecting some
|
||||||
|
recommendations of places to go while I was there, and continued on to Europe.
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
## The Loadout
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
(Wherein I give a summary of what I had with me throughout the trip, with
|
||||||
|
affiliate links sprinkled in, cause money. You can skip this section if you
|
||||||
|
don't really care).
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
I'd already had a [40L backpacking bag](zulu) which had done me well enough on a
|
||||||
|
couple trips already, so I decided to try and only use that. Other ~~homeless~~
|
||||||
|
backpackers tend to go a little bigger, but they risk not being able to fit
|
||||||
|
their bags in luggage overhead on planes. I also ended up needing a smaller day
|
||||||
|
bag almost immediately, since being out and about all day necessitates bringing
|
||||||
|
some things with you. The big bag/day bag combo is a classic amongst ~~the
|
||||||
|
homeless~~ backpackers.
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
{% include image.html
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|
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|
||||||
|
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|
||||||
|
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|
||||||
|
%}
|
||||||
|
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||||||
|
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|
||||||
|
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|
||||||
|
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|
||||||
|
%}
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
Most space in the bag is taken by clothes. Which clothes I actually had along
|
||||||
|
changed as the weather changed and I gained and lost things. But my general
|
||||||
|
clothing strategy consisted of a few key points:
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
* All things need to be re-wearable, 2 to 3 days at least. This is more
|
||||||
|
difficult for under layers, but wool is ideal as it's durable, warm, and it
|
||||||
|
quickly-dries (which means the fungi/bacteria, which would otherwise cause
|
||||||
|
smell, quickly-die). Wool socks were easy to find on sale for $5 a pair at the
|
||||||
|
end of winter. Wool undershirts (smart wool or merino) are findable on eBay
|
||||||
|
with some difficulty. [Uniqlo][uniqlo] makes good undershirts to fill in
|
||||||
|
when wool undershirts are too expensive. [ExOfficio][exofficio] is worth the
|
||||||
|
money in the underwear department. A pair of leggings is also super worth it
|
||||||
|
for the cold.
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
* For pants I went with three pairs; one beat-up pair, one casual, and one a bit
|
||||||
|
nicer, and a few wool shirts/sweaters. Later in the trip, as summer rolled
|
||||||
|
around, I'd pick up some shorts as well. My couple of wool shirts/sweaters
|
||||||
|
were trivial to find on eBay.
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
* For shoes I went with a pair of flip-flops and a pair of [waterproof
|
||||||
|
boots][timbs] (also from eBay). The boots I chose for being able to be used in
|
||||||
|
basically any occasion where flip-flops wouldn't do (marathons excepted).
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
* I really can't stress enough how great wool is. That said, I would have died
|
||||||
|
without [this jacket][jacket], which was well worth the relatively tiny amount
|
||||||
|
of space it took up. Same can be said for my [linen towel][towel], which
|
||||||
|
struck a perfect balance between packability and being a towel.
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
* Other random things which were must-haves: rubber bands (for tying up
|
||||||
|
clothes), sewing kit, external phone battery, tape, super glue, umbrella, and
|
||||||
|
a small package of baby wipes.
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
* I also insisted on bringing a laughably small and old netbook with me, cause
|
||||||
|
I get cranky if I can't code now and then.
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
Even before deciding on doing this trip I had begun purging all my old clothes
|
||||||
|
in favor of a much smaller set of more durable, though perhaps more expensive,
|
||||||
|
ones. So a lot of these clothes carried over from that, and all that I just
|
||||||
|
described is really my current wardrobe.
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
[zulu]: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B015SBLO28/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=mediocregophe-20&camp=1789&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=B015SBLO28&linkId=84ffbb4c20cf4dfcee00485312c1d5c3
|
||||||
|
[uniqlo]: https://www.uniqlo.com/us/en/men/undershirts
|
||||||
|
[exofficio]: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001M0MN0C/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=mediocregophe-20&camp=1789&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=B001M0MN0C&linkId=a1a2a1fac9c23c44c0633d0e7170fb98
|
||||||
|
[timbs]: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B019CVV1AK?ie=UTF8&tag=mediocregophe-20&camp=1789&linkCode=xm2&creativeASIN=B019CVW406&th=1
|
||||||
|
[jacket]: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B013HAXSLC/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=mediocregophe-20&camp=1789&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=B013HAXSLC&linkId=44efbeb32af7cc0f303180ec70da207e
|
||||||
|
[towel]: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00WBC17N4/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=mediocregophe-20&camp=1789&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=B00WBC17N4&linkId=dec48e5d729a51790abad2286f08fe34
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
## (Lack of) Planning
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
The trip was deliberately not planned out. I knew I would show up in Munich,
|
||||||
|
because I have a friend who lives there as well as a distant relative. But
|
||||||
|
passed that I figured "show up and look around" would suffice. My motto for the
|
||||||
|
trip would eventually become "plans are just lists of things which won't
|
||||||
|
happen". From start to finish the only plans I had figured out at any moment
|
||||||
|
was a general trajectory and my next destination. Rarely was my next place to
|
||||||
|
sleep booked more than a week ahead of time, or my next bus or train ticket
|
||||||
|
bought more than a day before.
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
It could not have worked any other way. For a short trip it might be viable to
|
||||||
|
have an itinerary with a list of destinations/sights which will be visited and
|
||||||
|
all the traveling needed in between, but the strictness of an itinerary always
|
||||||
|
adds tension. Rather than spend some pre-allotted time at each sight, adding a
|
||||||
|
feeling of being on a timer no matter where you are, I would rather just meander
|
||||||
|
around and spend as much time as feels right at each place. There's zero chance
|
||||||
|
of seeing all there is to see, no matter how much is planned, so might as well
|
||||||
|
see each thing in as much depth and detail as you feel like.
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
And looking back, I don't think I _did_ miss all that much. Each city has its
|
||||||
|
notable sights, and you can know by looking around and talking to other people
|
||||||
|
which ones are right for you. Start with those, if there's time do the others,
|
||||||
|
but you won't feel like you've missed anything if you don't get to them.
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
Much later in my trip someone would ask me and another backpacker (who'd been
|
||||||
|
traveling even longer than me) if we had advice for him. The other backpacker
|
||||||
|
immediately replied "Just keep your head on a swivel". As in, just look around
|
||||||
|
you, keep your eyes open, you'll see all you want and need to. My grandma gave
|
||||||
|
me similar advice before I left, when I asked her what I should do in Spain (her
|
||||||
|
home country): "Oh, you don'thave to do anything. You see something you like,
|
||||||
|
you go there. You see something else, you go there instead. There is nothing you
|
||||||
|
have to do".
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
## Bailing
|
||||||
|
|
||||||
|
In the next post I will actually leave and begin my _adventure_. Stay tuned!
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